COLD.

why is it so freakin' cold today?
the coldness of the weather seem to bite at the insides of your skin no matter how much layer and cover you use. haha. Baguio City is so unique.  The amount of rainfall and the seemingly gloomy feel makes me think that this place is the Philippines' "Forks" . haha :)

aside from the weather, what else is cold today?
SILENCE is.

how do some people perceive silence anyways?

Mostly, some people may perceive it as a sign of anger, bad feeling or being upset. Some would try to respect this silence and make some distance without doing anything, others would try their best to get you out of that silence zone no matter how much you resist it, they find a way and others, they would just simply think that you don't wanna talk, leave it that way and cuss you for doing that.

out of the three, which could make the silently angry person feel better?

for all I know its the second one. Its the initiative despite the barriers that softens the hard spots. this happened to me once and that made me realize that there no stone, no heart so cold that couldn't be melted by some conscious and self-initiated effort accompanied by honest emotions.

"ikaw, if you think that she is worth the effort, the time, the uncertainties and the chances of rejection, just as long as you get your message across, then go ahead."

the person responded: "that is the best thing you said out of all that you did."
*language modified    *conversation lifted from another source.




tricky, how life will make you feel that you matter. Sometimes, it is all a battle of perspectives leading to the thought that if you give it a try, make sure you've done your research and you know the person more than knowing what YOU think that person wants.

how cold is your night tonight?